Guidelines for Parents*
By taking responsibility for children's online computer
use at home or at any location, parents can greatly minimize any potential
risks of being online. Make it a family rule to:
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Never give out identifying information-- home address, school name, or
telephone number-- to an Internet address, and be sure you're dealing with
an organization and/or individual that both you and your child know and
trust. Think carefully before revealing any personal information such as
age, marital status, or financial information. Consider using a pseudonym.
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Get to know the services your child uses. If you don't know how to log
on, get your child to show you.
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Never allow a child to arrange a face-to-face meeting with another computer
user without parental permission. If a meeting is arranged, make the first
one in a public spot, and be sure to accompany your child.
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Never respond to messages or bulletin board items that are suggestive,
obscene, belligerent, threatening, or make you feel uncomfortable. Encourage
your childrens to tell you if they encounter such messages.
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Remember that people online may not be who they seem. Because you can't
see or even hear the person, it would be easy for someone to misrepresent
him- or herself.
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Remember that eveything you read online may not be true. Any offer that's
"too good to be true" probably is. Be careful about any offers that involve
your coming to a meeting or having someone visit your house.
* "Guideline for Parents" is adapted from "Child Safety
on the Information Highway," by Lawrence J. Magid. It is reprinted
with permission of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.
Copyright NCMEC 1994. All rights reserved.